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“Personality begins where comparison ends.”
– Karl Lagerfeld

Style is in your hands. Fashion, health, leisure, emotion, and satisfaction are determined by you. Interpretation is personal and the key to confidence. I offer you my opinion in hope you venture outside of your comfortable box. Most importantly, remember, don't take anything too seriously. Just have fun with it.

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As you read, please excuse the mishaps. We're still under construction here. But I'll tell you this much, the tumblr is much cleaner than my apartment after several sleepless nights. Unfortunately I don't know how to clean a website, but I guess I could pick up my shoes....

julia

meghan


mascarah:

Dear Mary,
Thanks to you, I am now in full-fledged love with these Current/Elliot boyfriend jeans in Love Destroyed or Super Destroyed (I’d take either).
Problem is, they are sold out everywhere in my size. Shopbop doesn’t even LIST them anymore! They are that gone.
Thank you for make me obsessed with something I will now have to pre-order. I hate pre-orders. I’m an instant gratification kind of gal.
My stalking of them with the Barney’s gals will continue. In the meantime, if you find any in 25s please do let me know. (The gals at Shopbop said you must go down a size in them.)
Love,
Sarah
Note: eluxury is a hoax. You think you’ve got them but when they get to your cart you see they added a big fat 30-60 day delay!!!

Yeah, gotta wait for the good stuff.  I don’t even have a pair and they are letting me order direct!

mascarah:

Dear Mary,

Thanks to you, I am now in full-fledged love with these Current/Elliot boyfriend jeans in Love Destroyed or Super Destroyed (I’d take either).

Problem is, they are sold out everywhere in my size. Shopbop doesn’t even LIST them anymore! They are that gone.

Thank you for make me obsessed with something I will now have to pre-order. I hate pre-orders. I’m an instant gratification kind of gal.

My stalking of them with the Barney’s gals will continue. In the meantime, if you find any in 25s please do let me know. (The gals at Shopbop said you must go down a size in them.)

Love,

Sarah

Note: eluxury is a hoax. You think you’ve got them but when they get to your cart you see they added a big fat 30-60 day delay!!!

Yeah, gotta wait for the good stuff.  I don’t even have a pair and they are letting me order direct!


The Best of H-Town
Restaurants:
 
Carrabba’s: Casual Italian food that never disappoints.  Go to the Kirby location for a more fun scene.
 
La Griglia’s: Good Italian, stuffy atmosphere, but it works.
 
El Tiempo: Decent Mexican with killer margaritas and an even better bar scene.
 
Ninfa’s: The Mexican is authentic and unique.  Be prepared to overindulge.
 
Mark’s: Deemed one of the crème de la crème of Houston, the spot everyone goes to celebrate, but not my favorite and really loud.
 
Del Frisco’s: The new hotspot for steak in LA.  But don’t forget to order a crab cake too.
 
Pappas Brothers Steak House: My favorite steak in Houston.  It’s a classic.  Honestly, anything that says Pappas on it is good.
 
Bank: Stuffy and expensive, but sometimes that’s what you’re looking for.
 
Rickshaw: Delicious Japanese in an intimate setting.
 
Fish: Trendy Japanese in midtown.
 
Uptown Sushi: Expensive Japanese with food that almost covers the cost.  Honestly, don’t expect much from Japanese in Houston.
 
Spanish Village: Fun, fun, fun, but not great food, food, food.
 
Houston’s: Lunch or dinner, it’s always f-ing good. 
Goode Company:  Fucking good bbq.  Order the chopped beef sandwich with extra sauce on the side.  Don’t forget the Pecan Pie.
James Coney Island:  No Houston review is complete without it.  I’m not a fan, but that makes me strange.  So if you’re jonsing for a chili cheese dog, this is your spot.
 
La Madeline: A French cafeteria that will surprise you.  Get the fat free Caesar salad, it’s delicious.  Actually, anything you order will amaze you.
 
Barnaby’s: One of my favorite breakfast and lunch spots. 
 
Beck’s Prime: the best burger in Houston.  Try the Hickory burger with cheddar.
 
Wholefoods: I love picking up a bunch of small bites from their deli section.  Broccoli crunch is the bomb!
 
French House: VERY casual café in a strip center on Westheimer and San Felipe.  Most amazing chicken salad sandwich ever.
 
Mama’s Café: The ultimate old school diner with yummy comfort food and the best milkshakes.
 
New/Trendy/I have heard are really cool: Beavers, Shade, Tiny Boxwoods, Shade
 
Skip it! – Café Express, Whataburger, Texadelphia

Bars:
 
Mugsy’s: 20 something’s acting too cool for school, but a god place to go with a group
Downing Street: When you feel like classing up your act, hit up this cigar bar for a martini.  It’s a hot spot for native Houstonians.
Lizards:  For a down and dirty Jaeger shot or to just chill on the porch.
 
The Armadillo: It’s the oversized dive bar, but people love it.  Play pool, drink beer, and all that good stuff.
 
Red Door: A young and trendy scene in Midtown.
 
Max’s Wine Dive: Always packed, always fun, and good wine. 
 
The Porch:  A great place to hang out.
 
Woodrow’s: Best sports bar.  Just get there early for the Texas and LSU games.
 
Smith & Wollensky’s: It’s the cougar meat market of Houston while also being the most fun people watching.  You know you want to see what it’s about.
 
Sullivan’s: Right down the road is more meat market competition.
I’ve missed a few I know….There are some great new spots in Midtown I’ve missed, but they came up after I left.

Shopping:
Best of the Galleria:  Neiman’s.  YSL (ask for Sharon).  Best makeover, go see Georgeann at YSL in Saks (she’s been my favorite makeup artist since high school).  Jimmy Choo.  That’s really it, for me.
 
Encore!: Of course I love my Mom’s store.  Designer brands resold at a HUGE discount.  Most of the pieces are a season or two old and still have the tags on them.
 
Tootsies:  For upscale shopping, this is my favorite stop.  Brands I buy here: Pucci, Missoni, DVF, Ralph Lauren, Theory,  Maraquita Masterson, Kenneth J Lane, Rebecca Lankford, I feel like I left some out….
Trendy boutiques around town: Katia, Indulge, Muse, Kuhl Linscomb, Intermix
Fun finds on a budget: Marshall’s across the street from the Galleria, Sports Authority, Loehmann’s, Ross, TJ Max on Richmond, DSW on Dunvalle, Target, Katy Mills, Neimans outlet, San Marcus outlet (if you don’t mind the drive)
My Mom’s Favorite Resale/Thrift Stores: 
 
The Guild Shop  (Jewelry, Furniture, Kitchen Stuff),  2009 Dunlavy,  713/528-5095
 
The Blue Bird Circle ( Furniture, Clothes),  615 W. Alabama,  713/528-0470
Sunshine Resale Shop (Kitchen, Sometimes Art),5407 Bellaire, 713/665-4000
Second Childhood  ( Everything Kids),  1922 Fountainview, 713/789-6456
Designer Furniture Exchange (Furniture, Accessories), 5701 Richmond, 713/781-9394
 
Stuff That Might Not Occur To You
Memorial park for a 3 mile walk or jog, museums (art, science, it’s all at your finger tips), Transco tower for a picnic, Galveston for a weekend getaway, The Laugh Stop has really talented comedians visit, theater downtown,  dinner party at home (people forget they can do this)

Dog Boarding 
Rover Oaks, Houston Dog Ranch, Happy Tails (recommendations per Kristen)

The Best of H-Town

Restaurants:

 

Carrabba’s: Casual Italian food that never disappoints.  Go to the Kirby location for a more fun scene.

 

La Griglia’s: Good Italian, stuffy atmosphere, but it works.

 

El Tiempo: Decent Mexican with killer margaritas and an even better bar scene.

 

Ninfa’s: The Mexican is authentic and unique.  Be prepared to overindulge.

 

Mark’s: Deemed one of the crème de la crème of Houston, the spot everyone goes to celebrate, but not my favorite and really loud.

 

Del Frisco’s: The new hotspot for steak in LA.  But don’t forget to order a crab cake too.

 

Pappas Brothers Steak House: My favorite steak in Houston.  It’s a classic.  Honestly, anything that says Pappas on it is good.

 

Bank: Stuffy and expensive, but sometimes that’s what you’re looking for.

 

Rickshaw: Delicious Japanese in an intimate setting.

 

Fish: Trendy Japanese in midtown.

 

Uptown Sushi: Expensive Japanese with food that almost covers the cost.  Honestly, don’t expect much from Japanese in Houston.

 

Spanish Village: Fun, fun, fun, but not great food, food, food.

 

Houston’s: Lunch or dinner, it’s always f-ing good. 

Goode Company:  Fucking good bbq.  Order the chopped beef sandwich with extra sauce on the side.  Don’t forget the Pecan Pie.

James Coney Island:  No Houston review is complete without it.  I’m not a fan, but that makes me strange.  So if you’re jonsing for a chili cheese dog, this is your spot.

 

La Madeline: A French cafeteria that will surprise you.  Get the fat free Caesar salad, it’s delicious.  Actually, anything you order will amaze you.

 

Barnaby’s: One of my favorite breakfast and lunch spots. 

 

Beck’s Prime: the best burger in Houston.  Try the Hickory burger with cheddar.

 

Wholefoods: I love picking up a bunch of small bites from their deli section.  Broccoli crunch is the bomb!

 

French House: VERY casual café in a strip center on Westheimer and San Felipe.  Most amazing chicken salad sandwich ever.

 

Mama’s Café: The ultimate old school diner with yummy comfort food and the best milkshakes.

 

New/Trendy/I have heard are really cool: Beavers, Shade, Tiny Boxwoods, Shade

 

Skip it! – Café Express, Whataburger, Texadelphia

Bars:

 

Mugsy’s: 20 something’s acting too cool for school, but a god place to go with a group

Downing Street: When you feel like classing up your act, hit up this cigar bar for a martini.  It’s a hot spot for native Houstonians.

Lizards:  For a down and dirty Jaeger shot or to just chill on the porch.

 

The Armadillo: It’s the oversized dive bar, but people love it.  Play pool, drink beer, and all that good stuff.

 

Red Door: A young and trendy scene in Midtown.

 

Max’s Wine Dive: Always packed, always fun, and good wine. 

 

The Porch:  A great place to hang out.

 

Woodrow’s: Best sports bar.  Just get there early for the Texas and LSU games.

 

Smith & Wollensky’s: It’s the cougar meat market of Houston while also being the most fun people watching.  You know you want to see what it’s about.

 

Sullivan’s: Right down the road is more meat market competition.

I’ve missed a few I know….There are some great new spots in Midtown I’ve missed, but they came up after I left.

Shopping:

Best of the Galleria:  Neiman’s.  YSL (ask for Sharon).  Best makeover, go see Georgeann at YSL in Saks (she’s been my favorite makeup artist since high school).  Jimmy Choo.  That’s really it, for me.

 

Encore!: Of course I love my Mom’s store.  Designer brands resold at a HUGE discount.  Most of the pieces are a season or two old and still have the tags on them.

 

Tootsies:  For upscale shopping, this is my favorite stop.  Brands I buy here: Pucci, Missoni, DVF, Ralph Lauren, Theory,  Maraquita Masterson, Kenneth J Lane, Rebecca Lankford, I feel like I left some out….

Trendy boutiques around town: Katia, Indulge, Muse, Kuhl Linscomb, Intermix

Fun finds on a budget: Marshall’s across the street from the Galleria, Sports Authority, Loehmann’s, Ross, TJ Max on Richmond, DSW on Dunvalle, Target, Katy Mills, Neimans outlet, San Marcus outlet (if you don’t mind the drive)

My Mom’s Favorite Resale/Thrift Stores: 

 

The Guild Shop  (Jewelry, Furniture, Kitchen Stuff),  2009 Dunlavy,  713/528-5095

 

The Blue Bird Circle ( Furniture, Clothes),  615 W. Alabama,  713/528-0470


Sunshine Resale Shop
(Kitchen, Sometimes Art),5407 Bellaire, 713/665-4000

Second Childhood  ( Everything Kids),  1922 Fountainview, 713/789-6456

Designer Furniture Exchange (Furniture, Accessories), 5701 Richmond, 713/781-9394

 

Stuff That Might Not Occur To You

Memorial park for a 3 mile walk or jog, museums (art, science, it’s all at your finger tips), Transco tower for a picnic, Galveston for a weekend getaway, The Laugh Stop has really talented comedians visit, theater downtown,  dinner party at home (people forget they can do this)

Dog Boarding

Rover Oaks, Houston Dog Ranch, Happy Tails (recommendations per Kristen)


For the new, fun spots in Houston, check out Houston Tid Bits.  I’m excited to go home and try out all of the new places they have recommended!

For the new, fun spots in Houston, check out Houston Tid Bits.  I’m excited to go home and try out all of the new places they have recommended!
  • Me: Ted keeps inviting to go out with them, but I can't go out hard like that anymore. I can't move the next day.
  • James: Yeah, in Houston, I don't have those nights where I go out and then wake up on the side of the street.
  • Me: Wake up on the street??
  • James: There were some crazy nights in NYC.
  • Me: Holy shit James.

Today’s post-workout lunch:

Thinly sliced cherry tomatoes
1/3 avocado, diced
Drizzle of grape seed oil (less saturated fat than EVOO)
Aged balsamic vinegar (sweeter when aged)
Wheat toast
Kashi oatmeal dark chocolate chip cookie
Water

Yum!

Today’s post-workout lunch:

  • Thinly sliced cherry tomatoes
  • 1/3 avocado, diced
  • Drizzle of grape seed oil (less saturated fat than EVOO)
  • Aged balsamic vinegar (sweeter when aged)
  • Wheat toast
  • Kashi oatmeal dark chocolate chip cookie
  • Water

Yum!


Roslyn on Columbus and 73rd…I do recall blogging this a few weeks ago.  I also called Mom, but alas, all of her hats sold :(
Actually, no worries, I’ll just gently remove one off a drunken socialite’s head at polo.
juliaallison:

I leave for London next Tuesday, August 26th, and I STILL DON’T HAVE A HAT OR DRESS FOR THE WEDDING.
I am panicking!
I suppose I could actually go … shopping … or something.
Okay. That’s the plan this weekend.  WHERE CAN I BUY A HAT IN THIS CITY?!?!
PS. If you have suggestions for what *absolutely* must be done while I’m there (till Sept 1st), please email me.

Roslyn on Columbus and 73rd…I do recall blogging this a few weeks ago.  I also called Mom, but alas, all of her hats sold :(

Actually, no worries, I’ll just gently remove one off a drunken socialite’s head at polo.

juliaallison:

I leave for London next Tuesday, August 26th, and I STILL DON’T HAVE A HAT OR DRESS FOR THE WEDDING.

I am panicking!

I suppose I could actually go … shopping … or something.

Okay. That’s the plan this weekend.  WHERE CAN I BUY A HAT IN THIS CITY?!?!

PS. If you have suggestions for what *absolutely* must be done while I’m there (till Sept 1st), please email me.



Oh my geeky girls, I love you so!!! This is now my favorite lip dub!!!!!

meghanasha:

juliaallison:

Filmed - nay, performed - at the WIRED 15th Anniversary Party in New York City three months ago.

featuring
Julia Allison & Meghan Asha

with cameos by

Caroline McCarthy
Chris Anderson
David Karp
Charles Forman
James Murphy
Ronen Verbit
Ze Frank
Andrew Breitbart

Finally presented on this Wednesday, August 20, 2008, to get you over the hump.

Enjoy.

(Video capably shot & edited by Ronen)

I had NO IDEA how much fun we had that evening, until after I saw these dance moves. I’m trying to get my ROBOT moves to go global. This my friends is a new dance REVOLUTION!

Thanks to all we harassed for joining us in our zany lip dub. 



HEAD TO TOE: HOUSTON AND LAFAYETTE

Zakiya is a great example of being confident with your personal style.  And, she’s a trendy bargain shopper!


For my Houstonians.

For my Houstonians.

meghanasha:

Stephanie made us Mangas, I’m liking each of ours (especially my red lips)!
I made my own, but her version is much better.  

 Thanks Stephanie!  I love that I’m at the beach :)

meghanasha:

Stephanie made us Mangas, I’m liking each of ours (especially my red lips)!

I made my own, but her version is much better.  

 Thanks Stephanie!  I love that I’m at the beach :)

The measure of a great relationship lies in it’s ability to handle breakdowns, not just in it’s ability to produce joy.

I posted this quote from Kyle King last month.  Your response was overwhelming and positive so I thought I would introduce you to the woman behind these insightful words.

Since I started Moe in 2005, I’ve had a career coach.  Although I didn’t click with my first one, I’ve always been a big believer in finding guidance outside of friends and family.

Kyle has been a lifesaver in these last couple of months helping Julia, Meghan, and I work through the challenges of being attached-at-the-hip friends and business partners.  Let me tell you, with three strong women, it’s not easy.

Kyle is not only a career coach, but also provides insight on how to better yourself personally.  I wouldn’t call her a shrink, you could I guess though.  For me, she affirms my self-confidence while also explaining how to focus on myself to solve problems instead of blaming others.  We all have a tendency to do it. 

At this point, there are several holes I see in my life, and I’m attempting to fill them with a fresh perspective. 

The best part about Kyle is that all of her workshops and discussions are done via phone for convenience in our hectic schedules.

Kyle isn’t a shoulder to cry on, she just shows you how to admire your own strength and use it to enhance your work.

I debated sharing this experience with you because you could throw it around a hundred different ways.  But if I have this challenge in my life, I know some of you do too.  And in the end, that’s my motivation in this blog.  You get my opinion that I hope HELPS (and makes you laugh every now and then), love it or hate it, take it or leave it.  Kyle is one I hope you take to heart.


TREND REPORT: FRESHEN UP YOUR FLORAL
Don’t be too hasty to store your bold floral prints.  Pair the dresses with a fur scarf, tights, and/or booties and you have a new ensemble for fall.
Note:  Have a discerning eye, not ALL florals will translate.  Anything light or linen needs to be boxed. 

TREND REPORT: FRESHEN UP YOUR FLORAL

Don’t be too hasty to store your bold floral prints.  Pair the dresses with a fur scarf, tights, and/or booties and you have a new ensemble for fall.

Note:  Have a discerning eye, not ALL florals will translate.  Anything light or linen needs to be boxed. 


Your floral doesn’t have to be flirty.  Michael Kors has Aggy strutting this floral pencil skirt for a sophisticated and feminine look.
(Side note: She’s not this intimidating in person.  But every time I see her on the runway, I think to myself, damn, this chic looks like she would cut a man’s balls off without a second thought. Probably why she’s one of the most coveted models out there.)

Your floral doesn’t have to be flirty.  Michael Kors has Aggy strutting this floral pencil skirt for a sophisticated and feminine look.

(Side note: She’s not this intimidating in person.  But every time I see her on the runway, I think to myself, damn, this chic looks like she would cut a man’s balls off without a second thought. Probably why she’s one of the most coveted models out there.)


Katie Holmes today in NYC.
She’s wearing a pair of jeans that look a lot like the Current/Elliott “Boyfriend” jeans I’ve been raving about.

Katie Holmes today in NYC.

She’s wearing a pair of jeans that look a lot like the Current/Elliott “Boyfriend” jeans I’ve been raving about.


F***, Marry, Kill


rebloggingrebloggingjulia:

maryrambin:

rebloggingrebloggingjulia:

For all the lady Tumblrs, or guys if you so choose, this little exercise is a Howard Stern show favorite.

Choose who to F***, who to marry, and who to kill out of these three:

  • Michael Phelps
  • Barack Obama
  • John Mayer

Tom, really Michael Phelps??

Here are mine: men -women

  • Gabriel Aubry or….Woody Harrelson? - Sienna Miller
  • Aaron Ekhardt - Jennifer Aniston
  • Martha Stewart - Rachel Ray

 *holding head in hands with pained expression*

  1. The premise of F***, Marry, Kill, is to only use the choices given.
  2. If I had meant to have it open ended I would not have given the 3 choices that I did. None of which by the way were meant to represent who I would have chosen if I had decided to lose my mind, let my imagination wander gay & then decide to blog it. Not. Gonna. Happen.  
  3. Umm, Mary? You are aware that Martha Stewart is in fact a woman?! It was confirmed when she was convicted and sent to prison.

Seeing that my first version was slightly sabotaged, I now submit to you a Tumblr centric version for Wednesday. I am throwing down the gauntlet for those who dare. My replies will come tomorrow after I smoke some peyote in seek of a vision: 

  • Mary Rambin
  • Julia Allison
  • Meghan Asha

Sorry to disappoint Tom, I’m new to the game.  Now not only have you explained the rules, but you’ve upped the stakes.  This should be interesting.  If it makes any difference, I’d kill me so my girls would be happy :)